My best friend is now dating my ex boyfriend
Later on he told me that he had mixed feelings and that he didn't know what to do about them, I thought he was talking about me but funny thing is it turns out he was takling about my best friend of 15 years.Everyone told me things were going on between them but i jsut couldn't believe them because i could of never imagined she'd do something like that to me, until the day I saw them together in the car. anyways so I decided to leave my home, start a new life in a new country and finish my studies, I was all good for about 1 month until he came back talking to me saying he missed me.While most of us probably hate our best friend’s exes more than they do themselves after listening to countless stories about them playing Xbox instead of taking them out on dates or being their shoulder to cry on when they cheated, some of us may also have experienced developing a crush on a friend’s former partner. She returned from travelling to find them living together. It’s still pretty awkward when everyone thinks about it too hard.” “HELLLLLL NOOOOOOO. Let’s go with Whitney Houston, ‘It’s not right, but it’s okay’.” “Maybe you’ve got to ask your BBF if it’s okay because you’re in love and maybe they’d understand. “I wouldn’t touch any of my friends or best friends’ exes – it’s just not even in my mind to do that stuff I guess, but maybe it’s because I haven’t actually ever been into them either.” “I’ve been with a best friend’s ex, as in we slept together a couple of times. Well we asked girls and guys from MTV if they think it’s okay to date your best friend’s ex and here’s what they had to say… There are only so many suitable fish in the sea and as long as there’s no bad blood between the friend and ex, and the friend is cool with it, what’s the big deal? ” “My best friend’s older sister ended up MARRYING her ex. I will say it’s dependent on how much this person meant to the best friend. Sometimes you’ve just got to step to one side and let love do it’s thing. “So actually, I’m torn between if it’s okay or not.
Let's break this situation down and count all your mistakes: 1) NEVER break up with someone unless you mean it. If you thought that the "breakup" would only be temporary, then that's your biggest mistake.
The lover in question might not be worth causing a rift in your friendship.
Sometimes people date the ex's friend as a form of retaliation. Except, of course, that stinking jerk who dumped you. —Ask The forbidden fruit always looks juicy and delicious (insert Eden pun here) but not all that glitters is gold.
However, the one thing that seems to be the unwritten rule among us is that we would never even consider dating our friends' exes. But now I realize this rule really needs more thought, because I believe there are two factors to consider before answering my girlfriend's Facebook question.
I mean, we've heard the charming phrases like "bros before hos" and "chicks over dicks" so frequently that the notion is ingrained into our minds: Don't date your ex's buddy and don't date your friend's ex. Without rhyme, reason, logic and common sense, we often find ourselves inexplicably attracted to someone. True friendship and true love are both elusive the key is trying to get them both!